Hey Mark! & JESS / Evelyn Segovia (ADRIAN'S MOMMY )
Hey Mark!
Today I contacted Mrs. Dubois in hopes that she can assist the investigation into your murder somehow. It is a stretch but you can never stop trying right? If anyone taught me that it was you...
I am going to have my third child in May and am so excited! I think it is strange how different my life could have been if I had stayed in California...
Sure, I have my ups and downs and ins and outs...but you know I am really grateful for what I have with my husband and three kids! I met someone who can love me even when I don't make it easy and I have kids that are so beautiful and so precious...
Adrian is getting so big! He will be 6 on April 19th, 2009!! OMG! I never thought I would see that day...I am so proud of him! I mean he is so smart...sure, he cuts up and I am a little tough on him...but that's what family is all about...
Jianna is just like her brother..lolz...everyone says she looks a lot like Adrian..I don't know how she turned out so white because my husband is soooo dark! We got jungle fever..hehe! His whole family is dark in fact...that's crazy...To be truthful I just think she looks like a white version of her daddy....we will see when she grows...
The third baby is still unnamed as of yet...I wonder where we will get the inspiration from this time.....if you have any potential's then throw them my way! :-)
Well, I am doing great in school and starting my BA...I think I may be a teacher or school counselor...the teacher is looking more promising because of scheduling and the fact that I could work and still get my Master's and PHD later to do the whole Psych thing...
I am gonna take a brief moment to address Jessica and I guess any other individual's who have any doubts...Regardless, I have and will always love you and what you have given me! Take care and continue to watch over us...According to Mrs. San Bruno you love Adrian and are making up for lost time by watching over him now...
*******JESSICA*********
Hey girlie! What is up? Look, I understand where all of you are coming from, but the truth is that you were the only reason that I did not press the Mark be in Adrian's life issue when I was preggers. You and your phone calls were the reason that I left to Texas shortly after discovering the pregnancy. I called his mom and asked her to tell him I left when I couldn't reach him...You told me a lot about his character at that time and made me feel as if he would never be there for my son...you also made me feel as if I was a homewrecker (although I never knew you were together). You remember that right? You remember when you called and spoke with Mark at my house? He told you a lot of disrespectful things and so it was my impression that you two were over. Unfortunately, that was not the case and I was mislead. When Mark was alive I talked with him about Adrian and asked him if he wanted a DNA test. He said that he did not feel it was necessary and according to Randy he even said that there was less than a 1% doubt in his mind that Adrian was his. After he died, I offered to pay for the test and Randy told me not to worry about it that she would wait until they could afford to pay for it. I was ready and willing to do the test so that Randy could be ensured rights to her grandchild. I was willing to do the test because there was never any doubt..I made up the "doubt" to appease you into relieving the harassing phone calls. You remember those? I was interested in ensuring Mark's happiness. Sure, it was an unadvisable decision; however, hindsight is 20/20 and when in the moment of despair you often make mistakes you would not make if you had a clear mind. I also applied for state aide and requested a DNA test via that route, but I was informed that contact could not be made with the father. This was all when Mark was alive. The scales tipped in opposition to the test when Adrian called Randy "grandma" and she essentially rejected him post-comment. At that point I felt as if it was unnecessary to have a test to prove someone was related to someone that they clearly wanted nothing to do with. My son deserved more than that and so I decided that further contact would be a disservice to my son. We fought for our place and experienced some real shortfalls including being homeless post-decision; however, my son's security was more important to me. Do me a favor and contemplate one thing--I had someone who was not the father and was willing and financially able to care for him although he was aware that Adrian was not his (we never slept together). He was by my side supporting me emotionally through the entire pregnancy, and I still let Mark know of his fatherhood. I never asked Mark for money. I never asked for child support. I never asked for anything other than communication and acknowledgement from the family. What purpose would that serve? Someone who lies generally wishes to gain from the lie in some way. I have generally been in another state and self-sufficient so what would be the benefit to me? I am married now and he has a father figure? So again, as you mentioned five years have passed....What on earth do I have to gain from continuing to acknowledge Mark as Adrian's father? As you can see I don't have anything to gain nor have I ever...I talked with friends and my husband and after attempting to reconnect with Randi and receiving no response I have finally realized that family are those who choose to be there regardless of circumstance...they are those who fight for their rights regardless of the obstacles....and ultimately they are those who are able to share in the grief...So in short, if Randi wanted Adrian in her life I was just one short test away. It has been five years after all...I have attempted contact...I have offered to pay for the test..I have requested the test through the state of Texas (which would have been paid for if Mark had responded). In short, I have done my part to ensure that those who love my son have the opportunity to be a part of his life. I was not the angry ex or the money grubbing baby mama. I was irrational and immature...but I did my part....maybe it's time that people start to acknowledge that my son and I lost someone too...we feel the loss too....we matter too....With that said I will wish you the best and if you ever need anything then just let me know...regardless of your acceptance of me or my son..I accept yours...and any other woman who had a child fathered by the same man...
Best Wishes & Lots of Love!!
Marie Segovia
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